Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. We started dating the summer before medical shool. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. I am about to get into a relationship with a doctor. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. I am a 47 yr old Mom of a 4 yr old child with special needs who is completely alone to care for my child a good part of the time. Here are a few questions you could ask her.
He also said that emergency medicine is highly competitive. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother.