My mam has always wished she could be as skinny as she was the first time she thought she was fat - and I often wish the same for my sex life. Not necessarily that I wish I was skinny as I was when I first started banging, but I wonder how my sex life would differ if I'd stayed as thin as I was then. My first five fuck buddies, when I was 16 and a size 14, only banged me if I was fully dressed or off my face. These guys were not at the same time, but in quick succession, because as much as I hated my body back then, I have always adored getting railed. What these men did have in common, however, was their own slimness, or the kind of weight that was deemed acceptable on a guy but never a girl and not even a teenage girl from a fat family with an eating disorder to boot. From that moment on, I only fucked him while wearing an oversized hoodie. Beyond their microaggressions, these people still wanted to bone and therefore, must have found me bangable.
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Additional Strategies for Sex With an Overweight Partner
The F Word is a series celebrating what it means to be fat — from destigmatizing the word to taking stock of the discrimination fat people face. How do fat people have sex? Just like everyone else, of course! Any sexual journey is all about what feels right, no matter what size you are. Fat sex, skinny sex, or any sex in between, you should feel comfortable and good about what you are doing. Just you. First things first, sex should be consensual and safe, every time, for every body. For a refresher on what consent means and entails, check out this cool graphic brought to you by Planned Parenthood. And, of course, there are many ways to make sex safer, which you can learn more about here. Lube is an absolute necessity for anal sex, and with penetrative sex, lube can actually make sex easier and more enjoyable as well as help prevent possible micro-tears in the vagina and anus caused by a lot of friction.
Fat Sex Tips
Not only are there health risks to being overweight, but for most women, a lean physique is much more attractive. Even more important than how other people see you, is your perception of your body. Maintaining a healthy body weight encourages self-confidence and promotes a healthy and positive outlook on life. In addition, if you are overweight and looking down at your penis from above a big belly, you might start thinking of your penis as small because layers of fat obscure so much of it. Remember, the penis comes from under the pubic bone. If there are two or three inches of fat above the pubic bone pre-pubic fat , your erect penis will need to traverse that distance before it sees the light of day. That, in turn, will cause you to think small about your penis power. In general, I have found that men with poor body images have some degree of penis weakness. Men who are comfortable with their bodies and are content with their looks have a higher likelihood for super potency.
Are there any books I might check out for sex with an unusually heavy man? Without getting too graphic, his stomach is so large, we cannot have sex; it just simply cannot be done…therefore other positions are necessary…I need help. So your beau has a big belly and it makes penis-in-vagina sex hard. Here are four ideas to get you started.
