We have lots of great conversations, we'd love you to join us, click here. Is it wrong to masturbate to one's exes when in a relationship? I have pictures and video of a sexual nature of a couple of my exes. While I would never show them to anyone else and am careful to make sure they remain confidential, I don't plan on getting rid of them. Since I still find my exes very physically attractive, and I'm not very turned on by most pornography I can find, I tend to make use of these materials for personal satisfaction.

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I’m 100 percent over him.
I cannot seem to have an orgasm alone or with someone else without watching or looking at those pictures and videos. And, can you uncouple those elements from him, specifically? Is it a certain physical attribute? A favorite sex act or style? Is it the very nature of the conflicting relationship you have with him? Do you get off on the heated arguments? Are you… hate-fucking yourself to him? For example, if you were both wild about anal sex and find yourself replaying the highlights of said dirty videos, bring anal sex into your ex-free sex life. If you just love the way he took control in the bedroom, ask your new lovers to toss you around a little.
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As if the thought of your ex just living and breathing doesn't gross you out enough already, you can now also safely assume he's still jerking off to the thought of you. In a new masturbation study honoring Masturbation May, sex toy company Lovehoney asked 4, people about how frequently they masturbate and what they fantasize about while they're doing it. They found that over half of males and females 59 percent of males and 51 percent of females get down with themselves on the regular, even when they're in a relationship. So, if you're in a relationship, you can rest assured that your partner is most likely jerking off to the thought of you most of the time. BUT, you can also safely start to panic that it is very likely your partner is also jerking off to the thought of his or her beloved ex.
But one way or another, we all come to grips. On the other hand so to speak , Bruce, a year-old finance worker in Connecticut, had no such qualms after he was dumped. During the torment of a recent breakup, approaches to masturbation vary wildly. Others use masturbation as a way of feeling better after a breakup, like Lauren, a year-old librarian from Missouri.